a present a father gives to the mother to mark the occasion of her giving birth to their child. In practice the present may be given before or after the birth, or even in the delivery room. The giving of push presents has supposedly grown in the United States in recent years.  A push gift is any type of present loved ones give to a woman who has recently given birth to a child. The name push gift although indicative of a vaginal delivery does not exclude those women who have given birth through a C-section."
Okay, back to the task at hand. I came across an interesting NY Times article on the subject and I was intrigued to read the differing viewpoints. I think the title of the article intrinsically states the opinion of the author: "A Bundle of Joy Isn't Enough?" Another opinion from a mom in the article: “It’s a way to honor a mother giving her emotions, body and hormones over to a baby for nine months, culminating in an experience which, when done naturally, redefines the meaning of pain. And when not done naturally, it’s still an act of sacrifice." And yet another opinion: “I do not think that because a woman has had a baby she requires a Tiffany & Company item. She requires help, love and emotional support." How about one more...: “I wear those rings every day,” Ms. Allen said. “They symbolize my kids. There’s something about them that’s even more weighty than my wedding band.”
Anyway, my Mr. & I have certainly never been one to follow "tradition" and jewels and bling and big shiny objects of material affection have never really had much part in my vocabulary. But I suppose I can understand wanting to commemorate such a special day with a little memorial charm or trinket, something to remind you always of the birth of your child. Another consideration: how different (or the same, for that matter) is this than the idea of an engagement ring or wedding band?
So, I wanna know: what are your thoughts on "push presents"? Is there a "right" and a "wrong" way to do it? Never a good idea? Sometimes a good idea? Something that you secretly judge your friends for wanting? Something you totally understand?
P.S. I think something like this would be a sweet (and super chic) reminder of the day of a child's birth. Or any other special occasion--weddings, birthdays, engagements, etc.
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